IF THIS IS MY NEW NORMAL, WHAT’S NEXT?
Written during the early pandemic, this reflection considers stress, everyday routines, and what remains within our control.
The journal
Words for the season you’re in.
Reflections on faith, family, relationships, and purpose, written by Debbie.
30 reflections
Unguard my Heart...
A personal Valentine’s Day story explores vulnerability, trust, and allowing closeness in marriage.
The Reason for the Season
A Christmas gathering inspires Debbie to reflect on faith and the meaning of the season.
Finding Joy
Debbie shares a personal reflection on grief during the holidays and finding comfort through quiet prayer.
Sharing Holidays with In-laws
Debbie reflects on changing family holidays and making room for adult children’s relationships.
Girl, Clean Out Your Closet
A faith-centered personal story explores releasing shame and making space for supportive friendships.
I'll Catch You When You Fall
A personal reflection explores mothers and daughters, family boundaries, and showing up for loved ones.
The Scars We Create: The Truth About Gossip
Debbie considers how gossip affects trust and the possibility of repairing relationships.
From Dreams to Reality
Childhood dreams become a starting point for rediscovering gifts and meaningful pursuits.
Designed Purpose
Debbie invites readers to notice their gifts, passions, and the activities that bring them joy.
Bitter-Sweet Forgiveness
Debbie reflects on releasing resentment and making room for forgiveness in everyday frustrations.
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Forgiveness in the workplace
An early-career experience leads Debbie to consider forgiveness and unresolved resentment at work.
Friending Yourself
Debbie explores how to extend the friendship and optimism we offer others to ourselves.
Naming Your Feelings
Debbie offers a reflection on recognizing emotions and reconnecting with our inner experience.
Apples and Kindness
A story shared with Debbie inspires a reflection on noticing others and practicing everyday kindness.
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Is It Time to Look Up?
Debbie reflects on difficult seasons and turning toward faith and support.
How Can We Help?
Debbie encourages small everyday changes to reduce waste and care for the environment.
Peanut Butter Eggs and Purpose
An Easter reflection connects family traditions with faith, renewal, and purpose.
Ghosted! : Not Just Digital Abandonment
Debbie reflects on relationship endings, unanswered questions, grief, and finding a way forward.
Goodbye Past...Hello Purpose
A 2019 reflection introduces Debbie’s writing journey and her desire to help people move beyond painful beliefs.
THE GRANDPA WITH A WOODEN LEG
Memories of Debbie’s grandfather lead to a reflection on family stories and caring connections.
Love and Ice Cream
An everyday metaphor invites readers to slow down and give important relationships more attention.
RIDING OFF INTO THE SUNSET...ALONE!
A personal marriage reflection considers expectations, differences, and appreciating what is present.
Her Need, His Need-Rating Communication with Your Spouse
Debbie considers how couples can talk more openly about their different needs and expectations.
GIRLFRIEND, WANNA KNOW THE SECRET TO ROMANCING YOUR MAN?
Debbie shares a personal Valentine’s Day reflection on expectations, appreciation, and respect in marriage.
R-E-S-P-E-C-T
A short introduction to a media conversation about respect and marriage.
MISSING THOSE WE LOVE AT THE HOLIDAYS
Debbie reflects on holiday grief, honoring loved ones, and making room for changing family traditions.
GETTING Those Gifts!
Debbie reflects on shifting holiday gift giving from quantity and shopping toward thoughtfulness and connection.
MOVING FROM TRAUMA TO TRIUMPH
Debbie reflects on authenticity, imperfect lives, and moving toward a more purposeful future.
Derailing Anger With Love and Respect
A personal marriage story explores the patterns behind anger, communication, love, and respect.
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